Below are excerpts from my emails to relatives…. They have gotten me pretty frazzled, but I must admit I enjoy the exercise…
I will only publish my words, for their sake… but I am pretty sure You can fill in the blanks (mad libs are for winers!) The emails were not all from the same person… but pretty damn close.
email #1
I am by no means a fan of the Democratic Speaker, mostly for such taxation issues (that, and i believe the positions she takes are mostly show-boating for popularity). But I am more concerned with your attitude towards politics in general.
The term “others” you use so coldly only serve to feed this us vs. them mentality. Further more, you are playing into their game, (name). Both sides do it. And both sides continue to benefit when you do so. This is an identity war fed by language and emotions. But we are all Americans first and foremost. These catch phrases only serve to stir the pot.
The last thing we need is another “Us vs. Them” election year. Last time this happened look who was elected speaker……
We are all in the same boat…. now all we need to do is compromise on our destination.
Believe me, if Hilary was elected Mcain would be the only logical choice…. even still, I am on the fence. But your cold-war era comments sometimes make me wonder how we are going to get through this year without taking on more water than we can bale out.
email #2
Are you telling me i dont pay taxes? I was trying to tell you i agree with you but feel you could be more productive if you changed your approach and you insult me?
email #3
It wasn’t the email that I was referring to, simply the language. I do believe that they are essential to informing people, that is why I read and respond. This dialog is quite precious when it comes to knowing how and why people feel the way they do.
I am still completely confused by these others…. unemployed? immigrants? faith based initiatives? The conclusions that can be derived from such vague terminology is endless. That is why, i believe, everyone jumps to the defensive when they feel that they may be one of the “accused”.
I admit, I did. My wife is on state funded healthcare, and an immigrant none the less. She has paid into our tax system for over 8 years and has asked for nothing in return until now. But I digress, this is only my personal plight. And one of my largest reasons for switching to the republican party last year (of which she is none too impressed). If we weren’t paying in thousands of dollars a year into superfluous federal taxes then maybe we could afford $800 a month for health care. Maybe not.
We’ve been scraping bottom for three years now… what about our future? We are both still paying S.S. ….. for what? for your generation? no. Because all people want are tax breaks, regardless of the national debt. regardless of how much our foreign policy costs us per year. If you dont wish to pay taxes then why support spendthrifts, regardless of their affiliations. Real republicans would be cutting costs to relieve the tax burden. Unfortunately I have yet to find one such republican on the national level. Instead we send trillions of our rapidly receding dollars over seas and you are offended that we might spend a little bit of that on Americans in need? to help them deal with this depreciation?
Thanks to the slipping dollar emmy’s school loans have doubled since she has graduated. oh, but shes not an american….
Dont get me wrong, I harbor very little compassion for illegals. After spending 3 years and thousands of dollars to do it the right way I am insulted by this “forgive and forget” approach.
But because my immigrant wife (not to mention my unborn immigrant child) has paid into our system without even a say on how things are run, don’t they too get to ask for something back?
So can these “others” be americans?
I dont like people who skirt the system. But I feel almost ashamed writing a WIC check, or going to DHS to apply for MaineCare again, Because apparently an income of 200$ per week is too much to qualify for assisted healthcare. The stigma is unbearable. But unless you are lucky enough to land a lame office job with benefits, what is an american to do? without offending the “others” that is.
You complain because you have a house, that you are somehow worth more than these others.. Do you work harder than them? Or do you feel entitled? How much do taxes hurt….
We pay the same percentage amount of taxes, yes you over a longer period of time. but you have also had a longer time to vote, to try and fill this hole back in. But now you want your retirement…. and I dont want to inherit your tax burden.
email #4
I apologize if I seem agitated… Truly I am not. Email looses all tonality and i believe thats why so many seem to take me too seriously. I am simply trying to continue this debate because I find it advantageous, and enjoyable. I only used my situation to draw a discussion piece in the sand. I hold no ill toward anyone except myself for being where i am because I could not be happier….
I am simply trying to learn more… We agree on alot. (more than I do with many I am close too) but seem to vote so differently… I was simply curious. Thats why I open Warrens emails (most of them) and thats why I occasionally respond…
email #5
I am not going to bother appealing to our shared opinions in hopes that you will take what I have to say with a grain of salt (or a lime). But I would like to think that you do comprehend, even to the slightest extent, that your wealth and comfort are due to this country. Yes you work hard and deserve to keep what you make. But you also have an obligation to this infrastructure.
You used public services to to get where you are today. Obviously, from the roads that take you to work to the police that save you from the local bully trying to bruise you for a nickle on your way home. You use their land, their markets, their banks and their security to make your money, so face it. It is not ALL yours. Pay your fair share and stop bitching.
If you dont like where the money goes, join the club. But I have a hard time believing that you can be, as intelligent as you are, so self righteous to think that you got there all on your own.
If you are not going to run for office, or join the army to serve the country to which you owe everything you have to, the least you could do is pay your fair share. Voteing isnt free.
best
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